How do I be a birth mom?

A birth mom called me the other day. She said, “I have no idea how to be a birth mom! Do I buy the baby presents, do I call, write, text?!? She was so worried that she didn’t know what to do as a birth mom.

Her sentence struck me hard “I’ve never been a birth mom before, I don’t know what I’m supposed to do”. ?

Momma breathe ?❤️? there’s no right or wrong way here. The only way is what is right for YOU!!!

Breathe momma. You can take it one day at a time. You don’t have to figure all of this out in a night and you are not alone! We are here for you ?